"It's been said that when it comes to sex, women are like ovens and men are like microwaves - quick to get hot. So this successful marriage tip encourages you to get good at relaxing your wife and creating a real physical connection. A 5-minute foot massage at the end of the day. A caressing neck massage at bed time. A lower-back massage with some scented oil. These sensual acts show your commitment to her pleasure and can chase away any thoughts that block physical intimacy."